Showing posts with label lifeguard. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lifeguard. Show all posts

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Breastfeeding and pools

All right, mommas. I bring it up because it's happened at a pool I was guarding once and my lil' sister still guards, and had it happen today to her. You want to breastfeed in public? Fine. You want to breastfeed in a pool? Get outta town.
I want to point out something that I don't believe the Crusader Moms (any mom who finds a cause, no matter how absurd, and starts protests, wages war and generally causes a ruckus) think about: It is unsanitary for YOUR CHILD to nurse in a pool. Do you know what's in a pool, besides chlorine? Urine. Fecal material. Skin cells. Food particles from the snack you let your older kids have 30 minutes before swimming. If it's an outdoor pool: bugs, grass, sunscreen residue, sweat. There's a good chance another kid might've puked a little of his lunch up and not told anyone. Most people don't shower before getting in, especially those old men who just sat in the sauna for 20 minutes and need to cool off.
Do you really want the privilege of nursing your child in that?
Chlorine makes water safe to SWIM in. It does not make it an appropriate place to feed a child whose immune system is not as strong as yours. And believe me when I say, the pristine pools you see the Olympians swimming in is not your local public or neighborhood private pool.
Yes, mothers have the right to breastfeed where they want in Colorado. That doesn't make it right to breastfeed in a pool!
I won't even bring up the bodily fluid argument because it's a moot point, there are all sorts of nasty bodily fluids floating in that water. If you care about your infant, you will take the time to get out of the pool, wrap him/her in a nice fluffy towel and breastfeed on the sidelines. Oh, and it's probably not a bad idea to give the older kids a break, too, because children get tired in the water and it's better to be safe than sorry with your children!
Clearly, this debacle has become the vocal minority overruling the quiet majority—a majority of women don't feel the need breastfeed while in the pool, but that Crusader Mom and her group of "Human Rights" mommy minions have blown this whole thing out of proportion.
Crusader Mom seems to not care that others may be offended by her actions, and that attitude is harmful and blinding. All she sees are her "rights" while forgetting the those around her have rights, too. And typically she vents her opinions on a hapless lifeguard who only wanted to enforce the rules so that everyone at the pool is comfortable, safe and happy. (Side note: Stop taking out your issues on lifeguards. It's not nice.)
If you search for "breastfeeding in public pools" you find a lot of stories, and most of them end with pool management acquiescing to Crusader Mom. You'll also find a lot of forums where the question is posed: "Should it be allowed or not?" and the answers are ignorant "sure, why not?" and "I don't see why you shouldn't."
If you worry at all about your children being in a clean environment, then you would not add to the mess of a pool. You would breastfeed your child out of the pool for the sanitary consideration of everyone (I've only ever seen Mexican hotel pools allow food and drink in the pool so don't even throw that argument at me!) and most importantly, for the well-being of your very own loveable, messy baby! You would also take your kids home and make them shower in good clean water with soap, because even though the possibility of contracting illness from a chlorinated pool is slim, that stuff I mentioned earlier is on their skin, in their ears, hair, nose, etc. and it is pretty nasty when you think about it!
One closing thought: Swimmers do their very best to avoid inhaling/drinking the water they swim in, for more than just appropriate breathing reasons—they're in it enough to know that it can be nasty. So why put your baby in the position to consume that bacteria-filled water at the same time as their nutritious breast milk?!

Disclaimer: I support breastfeeding wholeheartedly. I support a woman's right to breastfeed in public. I do not believe that right extends itself into physically breastfeeding a child in a pool. These are my opinions, and frankly, if you don't share them, I'm always open to a little thoughtful discourse so comment below!

Most of all, let your kids swim! Water is one of the best things in the world for them (just scrub them after). :)

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Day 10: Holding hands with someone

Might have to try for Day 10 tomorrow...
Okay, mommas, you want your kids to swim, right? Here's what I think a good instructor should do:
  1. Teach kids by showing them. If an instructor is teaching back floats, they should sit the kids out of the pool and show them what a good back float looks like. {Head back, chin up, relax your body, arms out, btw}. They should be very interactive.
  2. Be looking at the child when they are with them one-on-one, and there should most definitely be one-on-one time! If an instructor is looking at her buddy on the guard stand while your munchkin is sinking during a back float, she is not paying attention to your child.
  3. Make it fun! There's a reason kids love to swim, water is fun! A good instructor teaches by making the basics fun. Think "red light, green light" for kicking while still teaching kids that kicking shouldn't be a "soccer-ball" kick, it should be a "fish kick" or some similar analogy.
A great instructor should notice the details when your child is swimming. If she's teaching a preschooler to back float (apparently my go-to example), she'll probably have the child's head on her shoulder, or what I would do is physically hold their head while teaching them to breath deeply so that their body relaxes and chest rises. She'll notice that arms are stiff or legs are starting to come up. She'll know that head support is crucial when on the back because a scared child does not want water in their face, and it's perfectly possible to back float without getting water on the face. And she'll keep them in the float just long enough that they will either float by themselves (yea!) or learn that they can trust her with their heads and relax.

And here's a final tip for parents: When your baby is taking a bath and you're getting to the end of it, drain it (or if it's like my bathtub, it'll be low enough anyway) enough that you can lie your child on her back, so that her ears are in the water, but not in her face. This has two benefits: the water will completely fill the ears and accustom your baby to water, and she can see your face (which should be excited and encouraging, read this! The third benefit is that she'll be "floating" without ever losing support and still be in the right position for real floating.

If you ever have questions about swimming, please let me know, I'm happy to help. Also, these are simply my suggestions built from 8 years of teaching and going on 24 years of swimming, but they may not work for everyone! (Read: Disclaimer.)

I had a little girl a few years ago who had, the previous summer, achieved swimming the entire length of the pool. Quite an accomplishment, right? It could've been, but when I started teaching her, I quickly realized that she was in no way ready to do the whole pool. In fact, she wasn't even ready to put her face under the water!
The problem was her foundation was shaky. She was afraid to be under the water; she was scared to be on her back. We spent the entire summer in the shallow end of the pool fixing her foundation—how to do a bob, how to go from her back to her belly and back, what arm strokes should look like, etc.—and our summer ended with her triumphantly swimming on her back confidently and able to stay under the water longer than two seconds. She could've gone the 25 meters, but my goal was not distance, it was strength.
The moral of this story is: If you want your children to swim safely and confidently, don't be satisfied with any lifeguard at the local pool who's roped into teaching. Find someone who is good at teaching, because your child is worth it!